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Program components

Advocacy services

Legal Advocacy

DAP provides free legal advocacy to victims/survivors of domestic violence at the Minneapolis city hall advocacy office. Survivors can receive information about their legal rights and court processes. DAP advocates are present at all hearings in the Domestic Court. Email an advocate at advocate@mndap.org

Community Advocacy

Community advocates, at Pilot City Outreach and Little Earth At The NELC, offer an opportunity for people to access domestic violence services in their community.

The sewing circle at Little Earth is made possible through a grant from Verizon Wireless.

Other Services

DAP advocates attempt to make contact with all victims of domestic assault in the city of Minneapolis, whether there is an arrest or not. Advocates are also available to assist victims/survivors with orders for protection, safety planning, help finding community resources like food, safe housing and transportation to court as well as simply listening and offering support.

Language Services

All advocacy services are available in Spanish, Somali , Oromo and Ki Swahili.

Collect Calls Accepted

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Therapy services - Men's Program

Program Goals

The four primary goals of our Men’s Group are to help you:

  • end abusive and violent behavior
  • take responsibility for your behavior
  • complete a self-control plan
  • talk about the abuse and violence and break your isolation

Self Control Plan

On the first phone call you make to DAP we start talking about Time-Outs, the first step in Self-Control Planning. As you continue your work at DAP you will create a plan that you can use in changing your life.

Getting Started

It can be hard to look at the violence and abuse in your life and start to change it. DAP can help. We believe that violence and abuse are learned behaviors and that you can learn other behaviors to take their place. We are here to help you and we are glad that you are making the decision to change your life. To get started, call first call at 612-874-7063 or email therapy@mndap.org. Sign up for the program, change your life. 

The DAP Men’s Program is located at 204 West Franklin Avenue, Minneapolis.

Costs

We have a sliding-fee scale based on your income.

Program Format

Orientation

Orientation is a chance for you to learn about the DAP program and to decide if it is a good match for your needs. We offer two Orientation Sessions per month, one in the afternoon and one in the evening. The orientation session is 2 hours long. Please call first to sign up 612-874-7063. 

Education Session

The Education Sessions are classroom style groups with a new topic covered each Monday. As a client of the Men’s Program, you will attend 10 education sessions plus the self-control planning session.

Process Group

This therapy group meets for 2 hours per week on Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday. As a client, you will attend at least 12 sessions but you can set your own pace and attend more sessions before completing the group.

Stage 3 Group

The Stage 3 Group meets once a week for 2 hours and is a way for men to continue getting support for their non-abusive behavior and sharing their successes.

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Therapy services - Women's Program

Group Services

Survivors of domestic violence attend an sixteen session group to begin healing from the effects of abuse and violence. The goals of the group include; providing definitions of abuse, recognizing that the abuse is not the fault of the victim/survivor, exploring issues of safety in this or future relationships, facilitating healing and rebuilding self-esteem.

Protection Plan

The foundation of the Women’s Program is helping women increase their ability to protect themselves. We encourage women to know that they cannot control and are not responsible for their partner’s abuse. However, they can learn to recognize behaviors and cues that indicate when their partner might become abusive. A protection plan is a dress rehearsal for women. They have planned where they will go, how they will leave and what they will do when their partner becomes abusive.

Aftercare

Women who have completed the Women’s Group may also choose to attend an Aftercare Group at DAP. In Aftercare Groups women can continue receiving support and sharing their successes.

Individual Services

DAP therapists provide individual counseling for women who want to begin the process of healing but are not immediately able to join a group, or for women who wish to spend more time working on certain issues.

Cost

The cost of Women’s Therapy is based on the client’s ability to pay.

Women interested in DAP Therapy Services are encouraged to call the first call desk at 612-874-7063 or email with questions therapy@mndap.org. The DAP Therapy Program is housed at our main office, 204 West Franklin Avenue, Minneapolis.

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Therapy services - Emerging Young Men Program

A Message to Young Men

This program is about providing you a place to learn new skills and to talk about the effects of violence and abuse on your life. When we really think about it, we do not want to be violent, do not want to live around violence and do not want to hurt the people we care about.

At DAP, we understand that we all have learned how to be violent at some point in our lives and that often people act violently because they are unsure of other options. As you become a young man, it is very important that you learn new ways of dealing with your feelings and other people and begin to take responsibilty for your actions.

DAP also recognizes that changing behaviors is a very hard thing to do. It means that you have to look at yourself, figure out what you need to do differently to end the violence and decide to learn new skills. This may be unfamiliar and uncomfortable at first. The work we ask our clients to do at DAP is hard, but it is worth it. Take the risk, change is possible.

The Basics

This group is designed for young men who have been violent or abusive in family or dating situations. We use a variety of methods to teach New and challenging ways of dealing with situations and emotions. It is a supportive environment where young men are able to learn, talk and be listened to.

Starting Group

Each person must make an appointment for an interview before joining the group. The interview lasts about 2 hours and a parent or guardian is a part of the process. This interview helps us to figure out if the group is a good match for the adolescent. If everyone agrees that the group is a good fit the young man can sign up for the next scheduled group.

Meeting Times

The group meets once a week for fourteen weeks, typically from 5:30-7:00 p.m. 

Call 612-874-7063 or email eym@mndap.org to schedule an intake and learn more about the program.

Family Involvement

There are two scheduled family sessions during the group. These sessions focus on keeping family members up to date with the material covered in group, recognizing progress and negotiating new interactions and behaviors.

Costs

The cost of the group is $2 per session, including the initial interview.

Individual Therapy

Individual therapy may be offered to the young men in addition to, or instead of, group therapy. A decision to conduct individual therapy is made by the therapist based on information received from the client and his family.

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Therapy services - Children's Program

Individual Services

Your child is most likely to attend individual sessions while waiting for a group space to open, as a preparation for the group experience or because it seems like the best place for your child to talk about how she or he feels. The therapists at DAP use play therapy, like games, artwork, reading and talking as a way to help your child communicate his or her feeling about living with domestic violence. A therapist may recommend that your child come for appointments on a regular basis, often once a week. Sessions typically last 30-60 minutes, depending on the age of your child and the topic of the session.

Group Services

DAP offers age-specific groups for children who have witnessed domestic violence in their home. The groups meet once a week for ten weeks. The goals of DAP’s Children’s Group are to help children break the secret of domestic violence, understand that the abuse and violence is not their fault, strengthen self-esteem and have fun.

Adult Services

DAP has groups for survivors of domestic violence and for people who want to their violent and abusive behavior. Before your child can enroll in DAP’s Children’s Group, one of the adults in your family must be participating in, or have completed, a domestic violence group program.

Parent's Groups

A Parent’s Group is also available for you while your child attends group at DAP. You can learn about the material your child will be covering in group and how it may affect your family. You also have the opportunity to receive support and information on child development and non-violent discipline.

Costs

The cost for DAP’s Children’s services is based on your resources. All DAP services are on a sliding fee scale and are very affordable. 

Group Times

Children's Group typically meets once a week for 10 weeks, each meeting begins with a shared dinner at 5 p.m. and group running from 6 - 7:15 p.m. To learn more about the program, schedule an intake or inquire about individual therapy, please call 612-874-7063 or email Amy.

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Community & Professional Training

We offer free community education training on the basics of domestic violence, signs, intervention and awareness to groups in the Twin Cities metro area. Some examples of groups we have trained include: school classes, MFIP recipients, any group of teenagers and/or children, religious congregations, etc. We also offer a Community Education presentation outline and handouts, free of charge.

Professional Training

Trainings of professionals requiring the expertise of our therapists and directors in dealing with domestic abuse issues, victims/survivors, perpetrators and witnesses. Some examples include MFIP counselors, other therapists, a group of religious leaders, etc. We charge $150 per training hour, $75 per preparation hour and we negotiate travel expenses for trainings outside the metro area with the hosting organization.

  • What Every Congregation Should Know About Domestic Violence
  • Creating a Coordinated Community Response
  • The Medical Community’s Role in Ending Domestic Violence
  • How Domestic Violence Impacts Your Workplace
  • Identifying Domestic Violence Issues in Welfare to Work Program Clients
  • Clinical Presentation of Domestic Violence

For more information on training or to set one up for your organization or group, please contact Megan at 612.874.7063 x218 or email training@mndap.org

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DAP publications

The Domestic Abuse Project develops manuals based on our successful programs, our academic research and the expertise of our staff.  The five Group Manuals provide structured guidance for a practitioner in the development of a group, offers instruction and suggestions on successful group practices and leads the practitioner through intake and assessment alerting them to common problems.  Our Evaluating Domestic Violence Programs Manual, based on the popular workshop by Dr. Jeffrey L. Edleson, is a wonderful resource for organizations interested in measuring the success of their programs.  

Group Manuals

  • Men's Group Manual

  • Women's Group Manual

  • Women Who Abuse in Intimate Relationships Manual

  • Groupwork with Children of Battered Women by Einat Peled and Diane Davis

  • Groupwork with Adolescents by Diane Davis, MA LP

  • Evaluating Domestic Violence Programs Manual by Dr. Jeffery L. Edleson

    ARTICLES 

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    Research and Evaluation

    DAP staff conducts academic research on the effectiveness of different responses to domestic violence.  As a part of the evaluation process, a follow-up is conducted with adult participants of the group six months after completion.  This follow-up measures the effectiveness of the program. Parents of children who participated in the children's group are asked about the effect the group had on their children.  Feedback is solicited from advocacy clients upon closure of their court case. Learn more about our Coordinator of Research and Evaluation, Dr. Jeffrey L. Edleson, and his research at www.mincava.umn.edu.

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